Thursday, January 09, 2014
Have You Noticed
“Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.” -Bill Cosby
During your daily routine, life will confront you with various circumstances. Life will place you in conditions that may not be comfortable or something you are happy to be in. It could be news of a medical or financial condition; either of which will have a major impact on your life. There might be small things that seem to simply bother us. A co-worker that is always too loud, a flat tire or a leaking faucet.
The big and small things in life will always occur.
How we deal with each of these situations will determine our happiness. Humor can help ease the condition. Humor can help ease the stress that comes with the pain. Try it sometime, try laughing about it and moving on. Diffuse your frustration and do not allow the situation to sidetrack your day.
And the next time you are driving down the road and get frustrated with traffic, remember what George Carlin said, “Have you ever noticed that anybody driving slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac?” We all have to put ourselves into perspective and get on with more important things in life.
Stay inspired my friends!
Wednesday, January 08, 2014
Measuring Your Success
"Success is not measured by money or fame but by how you feel about your own goals and accomplishments and the time and effort you put into them." - Willie Stargell
How are you feeling this week? Is failure or success your current mood as you work your way through the day?
Society would have us believe that our success is determined by the prestige of one's job, the amount of money you make or how much "stuff" you own.
Success isn't the new car with all of the latest gadgets. Success is not the 5-bedroom home with a large flat-screen television in every room. Success isn't being the most photographed person at a party.
Success is what you feel inside.
There are many people with all of those material things that define success in society, yet they do not feel successful. There are many people that have very little and they too feel unsuccessful.
It is within you that success is found.
This does not mean to cease moving your life towards being more successful. And the idea that having nothing is something you have to be content with. No, that is not what I am talking about.
What it means is to be content in yourself. If you are not content in self, your tendency will be to focus upon the discontentment. To be content frees up your energy and focus in order to achieve great things in your life.
Feel successful in your own self and watch as success becomes ever more present in your life.
Stay inspired my friends!
Check out this interview with Seth Godin by Jaime Tardy.
SETH GODIN INTERVIEW - HOW TO MEASURE SUCCESS AND YOUR MINDSET
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
The Band Played On
"To try and define sportsmanship, if character means what you do when no one is watching, then sportsmanship is your conduct with everybody watching."
- Joe Primm
It was a day that started relatively nice in terms of the temperature with a gray pallet of clouds covering the sky. This would be a day when the bands marched on the field to play their respective school fight songs. The crowd would cheer the opening kick off of a football game between two great universities. This was the 2014 Gator Bowl between the University of Nebraska Cornhuskers and the University of Georgia Bulldogs.
And their marching bands played on.
As the opening kick lifted into the afternoon sky, the first rain drops came down upon the field. In an ever increasing opening of the rain clouds, the two teams played on. The marching bands having retired to their respective seating areas played on in support of their team. The crowd rose and fell with each heart-racing play.
In a close and intense game, the teams fought hard in those wet conditions. Emotions ran high and surfaced in moments of frustration. The rains never ceased nor did the difference in the score as half time came to the stadium. The teams retreated to their respective locker rooms for dry conditions and to regroup.
And the marching bands played on.
Each band performed in spectacular fashion even as the rain came down. This day was meant for rain slickers and galoshes to keep our shoes dry. And this day was not over as the bands retreated to their stadium seating and the teams returned to the field of battle. There was more to be left upon the field in a second half of football.
When the sportswriters and arm-chair quarterbacks have their final say, they will tell you who won, who lost and how it happened. There will be statistics of yards gained per carry, turnovers, takeaways and touchdowns. The analysis will break down why one team won and why the other team could have won.
The battle fought upon this field would be for a notch in the win column, for a trophy, for recognition and glory. It was also being fought by those playing their final game of a long career in sports. Graduation with a college degree and no professional sports career for many of these student-athletes, the battle was intense.
And the marching bands played on.
The intensity grew as the clock began a tormented countdown to the remaining minutes and seconds. The crowd was on the edge of their seats. The teams were digging even deeper as one final march down the field for a win cut open the rain clouds. The defenders were digging in even deeper, fighting to keep their lead in a close game, fighting to keep their win in hand.
With 25 seconds left, the outcome was decided. The battle was but a few clock ticks from being officially completed. A collective sigh seemed to have occurred at that moment on both sides. One team would lose and the other would carry home the spoils of victory. The final tick of the clock would show zero time left. The final tick of the clock would proclaim one team the victor.
The football players would shake hands and congratulate each other. Their grass stained jerseys, muddy hands and wet shoes would feel different dependent upon being the winner or loser. It is in these moments of great sportsmanship, they are all men, proud of having fought hard in victory or defeat.
And the marching bands played on.
Stay inspired my friends and Go Big Red!
Monday, January 06, 2014
Responsible Surprise
"You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of." ~Jim Rohn
There was news story a couple of years back from the Atlanta (Georgia, USA) area about a public official who 'took responsibility' after getting called on it. There was a certain appearance of favoritism by police in the handling of the matter. One could likely assume that a regular citizen would have been hauled into the police station without hesitation.
But it was not the handling of the elected officials police warrants that caught my attention. It was the failed personal responsibility of the elected official which resulted in there being outstanding warrants in the first place. This person had written roughly $1000 dollars worth of bad checks. As the story indicated, this person "wrote four bad checks - each for $300 to $400 - at the Costco in Duluth in January 2007."
To put this in context, that was three years prior to the warrants being revealed. The county in which the warrants were issued, were filed January 2008. It was now January 2010 and this commissioner was 'surprised' by the warrants. Do 'bad checks' just disappear in such a way that you would never have known you wrote them? Did the retailer never attempt to contact you or your bank about them? Nothing?
There were probably reasons behind this elected official's issue. Many of those reasons were deflections of it being their own fault. My point though is not to judge this person or ridicule them. My point is to let it serve as an example regarding personal responsibility.
This particular person was given a 'pass' to straighten out the issue. We all deserve a 'pass' to try and work things out as long as we truly take responsibility and correct those things we have done wrong.
Life can be difficult and I am hopeful for all people having a great life. But life also requires us to take personal responsibility for it.
Take responsibility for all you do. Even when the surprise comes along, stand up and take hold of it.
And stay inspired my friends.
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