Monday, February 23, 2009

The Rain Will End


"And it's rainin' all over the world; It's raining all over the world" -Electric Light Orchestra

It can certainly feel that way when things are going tough for you. I remember the feeling when going through a divorce several years ago. That sense of nothing left came on a day that my neighbors dog died while I was taking care of it. In the midst of a painful divorce, I was still helping others and now their dog dies.

It was actually a rainy day and you couldn't have convinced me that the sun was shining anywhere on earth. It was raining when I found the dog, it was raining when I buried the dog and it was raining as I sat on my back deck pondering what I had left in life.

As I sat there slowly letting the rain engulf me in absolute sorrow, the darkness of it all was quickly overcoming me. I would like to say it was then that the rain stopped and the sun shone down upon me. A sign of sorts but not exactly. What happened is that a small light began to open inside of me. There was something telling me that the rain would end and the sun would again spread its warmth around me.

At that moment, with the wet rain still beating down upon me, I decided that I was no longer going to be the victim of my circumstance. I was going to pick myself up and move on with life. Most certainly it took work on my part, but the greatness one achieves doesn't come without effort.

Just understand in your own life that the 'rain' is temporary and the sun will shine once again. Allow yourself to be whole once again and move towards a greater day.
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Monday, February 16, 2009

Wedding Of David & Shirin


Two special people in my wife and my lives are getting married today. Our daughter Shirin is marrying David in a seaside ceremony. The weather in Malibu is a challenge but the beauty and splendor of these two is undiminished.

As they embark on a wonderful life full of new adventures and challenges, it is love that will carry them through.

As any parent would be, we are so proud and happy for them. We will watch them grow together and be happy in the knowledge that they are together. Our love and the love of so many family and friends are with them today.
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Saturday, February 14, 2009

Valentine For You

My valentine I pray that thou wilt be,
Not for a day, but for eternity.


- Charles Nelson Douglas -
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Thursday, February 12, 2009

Taking a Journey


I will be taking a few days off. My daughter is getting married and any 'in-between' time left, I'll try to write something. I'm excited, happy and hopeful for her life that lay ahead with her new husband.

It is the anticipation of change that sometimes prevents people from actually embarking out on a new course. It can be a daunting task but you will never experience the greatness of change without actually stepping out in change.

There will be up, downs and many sideways events in your journey. Just keep your eyes focused on the end. You can always correct your course along the way. Most of all, enjoy the journey.

See you in a few days!

"If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it." ~Mary Engelbreit
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