Where Does The Buck Stop

"When you blame others, you give up your power to change." - Robert Anthony

When things go wrong, some people will refuse to accept the blame or consider themselves to be at fault. They prefer to blame external factors, forces, people, situations, or circumstances.

In extreme cases we may deny that there is a problem. In other cases, we may try to reduce the reasons for its severity or as for our involvement by assigning the blame elsewhere so that fingers are not pointed at us.

There is an old saying, "When you point a finger at somebody you point three fingers at yourself."

More times then not, the idea that three fingers are pointed back at you is a subtle reminder that you may need to accept responsibility.

Someone who carried responsibility was United States President Harry S Truman. A sign on his desk was there to remind him. It simply said, "The buck stops here." There was no one else to blame. As president, he could not kick the blame higher.

This is not the case with the rest of us.

We tend to assign blame to others. Yet why do we do it? Are we taught to do so? How does it affect us? How does is keep us from becoming better individuals?

There are three things you can think about when it comes to stopping the blaming and accepting responsibility for your life;

1. Learn to accept and value yourself just the way you are now. Even though it continues to be important to maintain goals for your future, self-esteem is how you can evaluate yourself here in the present.

2. Learn that people should not be blamed for their human frailties. Meaning people will have faults, no one is perfect. So don't blame people simply for not being perfect.

3. Learn how to acquire and appreciate positive reinforcement. When you treat others with dignity and respect, it is very likely you will receive positive treatment in return.

There are many other ideas on how to accept responsibility in your life.

There could be others at fault at various times, but be quick to understand your part in all that happens. You will find that you learn more and take away more from the situation then would have occurred by blaming others. Blame does not advance our lives, it only holds us back.

Assume responsibility for your life and take it farther than before.

Stay inspired my friends.

Labor Day Affair

"If all the cars in the United States were placed end to end, it would probably be Labor Day Weekend." - Doug Larson

Labor Day pays tribute to the contributions and achievements of American workers. It was created by the labor movement in the late 19th century and became a federal holiday in 1894. Labor Day also symbolizes the end of summer for many Americans, and is celebrated with parties, parades and athletic events.

But yet, there are many who work on this day so that many of us can enjoy the day off.

So thank you to all of the hard working people out there. Thank you for being a part of what makes life great.

Stay inspired my friends.

This Week Was

Try to make at least one person happy every day. If you cannot do a kind deed, speak a kind word. If you cannot speak a kind word, think a kind thought. Count up, if you can, the treasure of happiness that you would dispense in a week, in a year, in a lifetime! - Lawrence G. Lovasik

It was a very long week for me as business kept me from having the time to write. I cherish being able to write every day and connect with people through my articles.

Sometimes it just doesn't happen.

But I do take the time when I am out at the store, walking into an office for a meeting, or talking with others to leave them with hopefully one good thing.

Each of us can this.

Every single day you have the opportunity to impact someone's life in a positive fashion. A smile, a good word, a helping hand or simply listening to them.

Every good action counts.

Try to be the type of person who lifts, encourages and makes the day a little bright for someone else. Your own day will be brightened if you do.

Stay inspired my friends!

Beyond Mediocrity

“Mediocrity will never do. You are capable of something better.”
― Gordon B. Hinckley

Do not strive for mediocrity.

Strive for greatness beyond what others may do.

You can achieve so much more.

Stay inspired my friends!